This isn’t just another love story—it’s about those small, pivotal moments of trust that change how we see someone. In a world where dating can feel like a minefield of mixed signals, Jens’ experience reminds us that sometimes, a little outside perspective is all it takes to turn skepticism into something real. Plus, who doesn’t love a lockdown love story?

From the first offer of breakfast mimosas, Jens Radda knew Lachie was a kindred spirit – but he was cautious. Then a mutual friend confirmed his feelings<ul><li>Find more stories from <a href="https://viewer.gutools.co.uk/lifeandstyle/series/the-moment-i-knew">The moment I knew series</a></li></ul>During Melbourne’s sixth lockdown in 2021, I was bored out of my mind in my suburban sharehouse and craving connection. I’d been following an Instagram account for a drag performer called Iva Rosebud at the behest of a mutual friend who felt our work was similar.I’d been watching them from a distance for some time when one Friday night a message arrived suggesting a collaboration. Obviously it piqued my interest; it’s not like I had anything else to do – who knew how long the lockdown would go on for? <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/jun/15/the-moment-i-knew-i-worried-he-was-a-playboy-then-a-friend-reassured-me">Continue reading...</a>

Jens Radda was initially wary of Lachie, suspecting he might be a playboy, but a mutual friend's reassurance helped confirm his genuine nature. Their connection began over breakfast mimosas during Melbourne's 2021 lockdown, when Jens was craving companionship.

The moment I knew: I worried he was a playboy, then a friend reassured me

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