My boyfriend sees sex as a competition he is losing. How can I change his mind?

In a recent advice column, Eleanor Gordon-Smith discusses the challenges faced by a woman whose boyfriend views sex as a competition he feels he is losing. This perspective stems from his insecurities about performance and size, which may be linked to his upbringing without a father. The article emphasizes the importance of addressing these insecurities and helping him understand that societal standards shouldn't dictate personal worth. This conversation is crucial as it highlights the impact of masculinity on relationships and the need for open dialogue about self-esteem.